The answer to this question is a resounding NO! Saying singles events are for losers or desperate people is one of the biggest misconceptions ever! At a Dare2Date event you will find smart people who are looking to do something new and exciting and they recognize it as a great way to meet new people. A lot of people have been frustrated and disappointed with INTERNET dating, whereas at a singles event you get to meet people face2face and have fun doing it. I often get asked what type of people attend these events and the answer is people just like you and me. They are genuine/normal single people from all walks of life.
You may ask why try a singles event, well a lot of single people get stuck doing the same old thing and seriously if you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got! And by trying something new you have absolutely nothing to lose. I honestly believe when you are single the more different and varied things you try, the more likely you are to meet new people and ultimately the ‘one’. It is a little bit of a numbers game
But don’t take my word for it – this is what a couple of Dare2Date’s customers have to say:
“I have never been to a singles event before and a group of my mates asked me to go with them to the Dare2Date river cruise. When we first got there we did wonder what the hell we were doing and then figured that no matter what we could have a great day hanging out with each other if there was no one we liked! We were all pleasantly surprised at the people we met and really ended up having an awesome day! I met some people who I can see being great friends and my hardest decision will be which of the girls to ask out! I will definitely come to another social event and have already lined up a few other single mates to come.” ~ Dave
“I have tried a few singles events and have found that Dare2Date events are quite different. They are different because they are relaxed, friendly; definitely a lot of fun and Dare2Date seems to attract some really great people. I have not only made some fantastic friendships but I have gone on a couple of fun dates.” ~ Sue
Tips for attending a Dare2Date Singles Event
1. The people who attend these events are just like you!
They are normal people who are willing to try a new way of meeting people. I have found that people often feel embarrassed about going to a singles event so they look at others and think they are desperate or losers when in fact they are there for the same reason as you are and often for the first time.
2. Let go of preconceived ideas.
Don’t write people off on their appearance or before you have talked to them. Remember they may not be your cup of tea but they could become a friend and we often meet people through friends. Seriously the more people we meet, the more likely we are to find ‘the one’.
3. Relax
Singles events really are about having fun and you don’t need to take life too seriously!
4. Beware of high expectations!
People often go to singles events with high expectations of instantly meeting ‘the one’ then and there. When they don’t they become disappointed and disillusioned! Remember life is about having fun and expanding your social circles and while you are doing that you will meet ‘the one’.
5. Don’t Stress!
At Dare2Date events there are always friendly people in the same situation as you and there is absolutely nothing to be worried or nervous about.
6. Attitude is everything!
Come with a good attitude and I guarantee you will have a fun night. Also remember we all like confident people so fake it ’til you make it!
Look forward to seeing you at an upcoming singles events.
~ Debbie
